I certainly encourage you to attend the Indy show, especially if it's close. There is obviously a lot of product on display and it gives you a chance to meet a significant number of P:48 practitioners. The world of P:48 is still small enough where you can easily get to know most folks involved in it. With the internet and social media, those relationships build rapidly and solidly. The whole community has been very helpful - just toss out a question and someone will have encountered the issue and can provide a variety of ways to overcome barriers.
Personally, I converted to P:48 from 3RS three years ago. It was after talking with Jay and others at O Scale West (February at the time IIRC) that sealed the deal for me and then I attended the Indy show in the fall. The helped me overcome my fear of converting locomotives - it's very simple: pack it well and ship it off to a guy who knows how to do it! Since I was not planning to have more than a few engines, the cost is reasonable. As far as modifying cars, I learned to do that myself; after a couple, it becomes very straightforward. Plus, it gives you an excuse to buy cool tools!
Cars where the wheels and flanges are visible, such as hoppers & tank cars, make it worthwhile - looking down and seeing an accurate wheel profile and gauge is very enticing for me.
Jim Canter's layout is a must-see. His collection of brass P:48 locomotives is a sight to behold. Then there are his trucks - all ball bearings and they roll forever.
..gregg