Maybe you haven't been doing it long enough to remember frequent auction site scams and account freezing first being implemented, and other mistakes made?
Trust me, I've been doing it long enough. I have been selling collectibles on-line since the dawn of the web.
Believe it or not, I was personally invited via email by the founder of eBay to sell on his site when it just a hobby for him. He said he had saw my site called "Ed's Garage Sale" (I'm at a loss to remember what domain I used) - and asked if I would check out, and consider selling a few things on his auction site, called eBay.
I declined.
I didn't start listing on eBay until around the time the KODAK DC-120 Digital Camera came out - once I had that thing, I could make listings look decent.
I'm on my 3rd account - can't even remember why - probably loss of contact with the account due to changing ISPs clumsily.
Refund was offered. Find it. I wrote it; seriously
If the then $500 racing carb hasnt been abused, the $150 refund stands even today if you bought one. $50 doesnt buy two of three racing filters discounted, no deal.
Im glad you've had better experiences. I wasnt doing it as a businesss, I was purging after injury. Im glad Palallin has access to his coupler. And Im glad my CL is active because I like dealing eye to eye. Im not afriad of the world, or at my home. Im glad my dealings on this forum have good ones too.
I ran a small package shipping dept. and mail room for a few years, but I wasnt crunching numbers THERE. Maybe 120 boxes a day, & mail with a 3 man team, while still being top of my class in commercial advertising/ graphic design for that 3rd year straight.
Seriously.
This thread is about the selling, and more properly, shipping of trains.
And when it comes to eBay - every market sector is different.
The eBay AUTO sector is no exception - and full of low feedback, inexperienced buyers.
I had nothing but trouble in the AUTO sector- but finally sold a few cars, and old 30 foot 1950s camper - Never really cost me anything but time - but WOW - what a pain in the butt!
Seems like most auto buyers - they want a certain car - or car part. They will register, and make the purchase - and maybe never buy anything again - or won't buy again for a long time.
At first, I got really creeped out by all these newly registered, (0) feedback bidders, bidding up my cars - and I even canceled a few bids...that was a mistake!
These guys buy so infrequently - they just don't have feedback - even though they may be legit buyers.
You really have to ask low feedback bidders to contact you before bidding.
That said - it all other eBay matters - I have a strict policy of NEVER communicating with buyers, in any way, unless it's absolutely necessary. (especially in the case of a dispute)
As it is today - eBay handles all the necessary communications to complete a transaction.
If you have complaint - reply, and suggest that the buyer open a claim with eBay...you'll be surprised how often you never hear from them again.
If they open a complaint - just follow the eBay process - and keep your communications with the buyer within that process.