There was an article in the March 2008 CTT, on how to wire a Lionel Signal Bridge using relays. I built several of these, unfortunately the parts were from Radio Shack and don't think they are in business anymore. There were three components:
The Relay was RS 275-248, which had a 12-volt DC coil, and 10-amp contacts. Since it was DC, a rectifier was needed to work with the AC track power.
The bridge rectifier was RS 276-1152, which was rated at 100 volts SC and 1.5 amps.
There was also a capacitor, RS 272-1032, which had a rating consistent with the relay coil. It stores energy that allow for smoother operation.
If anyone has suggestions for replacements for these components, that would be appreciated.
The first picture shows the relay and capacitor
That round disk is the rectifier.
I have my wiring diagram somewhere but could not find it quickly. I have used it with crossing gates and track signals.
The first one took me a few hours to solder the parts together, so if you only need a few of them, then GunrunnerJohn's boards would be the way to go.
30110 Insulated Track Signal Driver, Rev. 2 - HENNING'S TRAINS (shoplightspeed.com)