All of the suggestions above are good.
Personally I'm a fan of the Molex. I have a set of .093 Molex in place on my large layout for over ten years now with no issues. They carry my track power, accessory/light power, accessory activation, switch activation, etc....
I use them at my control panel so that I can easily disconnect the control panel from the layout when I want to do work, or just put the controls away.
You can get the Molex in various configuartions. Most of mine are square 9 position plugs.
I did just recently find some of the 3 position "house" looking plugs that match the Lionel Powerhouse transformer plugs.
I am currently wiring up my "crashpad" layout, and using Molex on it as when not running I need to put the control away for space considerations.
That all said, I never thought of, and relaly like the trailer connectors posted above. Already wired...save me a step