If you have a buddy who DOES sell at local train shows, perhaps you could work out a shared deal for his help.
Re alternative selling thoughts for HO...
Ebay, like it or not, is you widest geographical exposure for sales. However, as with all the gauges, kit-builders are a declining segment of the hobby. Ready-to-run...and all the associated monikers...is the growing segment. For names...Athearn, Woodland Scenics, Evergreen, Faller, etc....that are yet producing, I wouldn't expect to get more than 50% of the selling price...if that. Some kit producers, like Scale Structures Limited, may have a reduced product line, discontinued structure kits, which may do better on the broad market.
Really old HO...40 years or more vintage...is tougher because technologies of mechanisms/controls, manufacturing processes, materials, etc. have changed so much (for the better), and the market has responded accordingly. Example: wood structure kits formerly made using die-cut sheet wood pieces requiring finagled final fits versus laser-cut walls and details that fit precisely....no fussiness.
Track?.... Old brass rail track? The industry has given up on brass rail track for all but outdoor usage due to its oxidation problems requiring frequent maintenance. Those wishing to maintain consistency as they expand their brass-railed empire are getting fewer and fewer.
Re HO freight car kits...If they are old enough to have the NMRA couplers rather than knuckle couplers compatible with the de facto standard, Kadee, will be further depreciated. Ditto wheel/axles....Metal wheels are now preferred, plastic wheels pre-dating the NMRA RP-25 wheel contour are typically destined for the trash/recycle heap.....further depreciation.
Bundling is often required to get rid of the really common or less desirable items. IOW, put it into a miscellany pile, gird your loins, grit your teeth, and price the lot to SELL.
I dunno... You'll probably get lots of opinions/suggestions. My wife has been helping our (LHS) customers who have trains estates to sell on Ebay for more than 15 years. The above comments are but a small summary of her experience in using that venue to sell HO collections.
FWIW....
KD